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Saturday, March 6
// 1:43:00 AM

yah , one more ting .. someting stupid to share wif u peeps ...

Through a Rapist's Eyes
A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they
look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They
are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail or other hairstyle that
can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long
hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women
who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors
around to cut clothing.

3) They also look for women on their mobile phone, searching through their
purse or doing other activities while walking, because they are off guard
and can be easily overpowered.

4) The time of day men are most likely to attack and rape a woman is in the
early morning, between 5 and 8:30 a.m.

5) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and
quickly move her to a second location, where they don't have to worry about
getting caught

6) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3 - 5 year
sentence but rape with a weapon is 15 - 20 years.

7) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because
it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you
isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

8) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other
similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands. Keys are
not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use
them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth
it.

9) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following
behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in a lift or stairwell,
look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or
make general small talk, "I can't believe it is so cold out here, we're in
for a bad winter". Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a
line-up, you lose appeal as a target.

10) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you
and yell "Stop" or "Stay back!" Most of the rapists talked to said they'd
leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to
fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

hahaz.. never knew dat rapin someone oso required so much knowledge one ... now i know liao .. keke :P kiddin ....

// 1:31:00 AM

sigh.. i m nt at all happy ..got back my a level chi results.. got a C.. sianz..
actually , i okay wif it one.. go U oso no need dat mahx.. but hor , juz dat i nt happy dat all my fren all get A,B .. pple hu supposely to be weaker in chi oso score at lest a B .. basket ... nt dat i wan to say la, but chi nt veri important but put in report card muz look nice nice mahx.. and a C is definitely nt nice.. haiz
aniwae.. todae kana tok by mrs chan about my current situation .. amazinly , i know exactly wat wrong wif me but as they say lor .. tiNGs are easier said den done ... sigHz.. wif my current attitude in life, i sure will do as well as i dream of one.. so from now .. gonna change .. I LOVE TO STUDY! I LOVE TO STUDY!.. wif luck , maybe dat will slip into my mind subconsciously .. heex
ha.. todae went for the bai yun gang tingie .. *its a play for those hu dun understand* 8-10 le .. sianz .. nt am but pm .. haiz.. kay kiang la.. haiz.. somemore tml muz go oso .. wif 2 camera somemore .. sianz..ha..nvm, can take dis opportunity watch dat play again ,,watch it 3 times liao though .. lolx. :P yah , btw, to yu ... nt communication breakdown , is too many tings i can't multi task ..den hor , u still sleep so early .. blech ;P
aniwae, to mr toh ... ur guess fist (translated directly from chi) veri lousy le.. never play wif the pro . keke ... mi too pro for u liao .. heex.... yah , one more ting ... ur skilll in tai dee oso cannot compare wif me ... hahaz.. hu can sia aniwae?? keke .. train for 1 yr b4 u come find for me to qie k?? hahaz.. :P

yah , one more ting ... I love to study ... i love to study .. i love to study .. i love to .... ~zZz~

Tuesday, March 2
// 12:55:00 AM

hey.. goin to be a new yr soon .. nt at least another 12 hr bah ..hehe can't wait for it .. gonna be 18 next yr liao .. den more freedom will be given to me .. nt dat i dun haf much freedom...but the dull side hor , sigh.. next yr a level liao .. so fast another phrase of my life is goin to happen soon .. stress le .. juz 2 yr ago, lyk the o level lor.. muz choing liao .. so i guess my new yr resolution is to haf fun but need to balance my time on study oso .. sigh.. dat will be hard lor.. jc life so stress .. THE WHOLE DAE is spend in nYjc lor.. wat a toture .. haiz.. yesterdae recieve Mrs Chan msg about skool on mondae .. wat a nag .. as if i wun know lyk dat .. sianz... But nvm ..still got 5 daes to go .. can still enjoy a little bit ;P

about todae .. wat a bore.. the prospect of playin wc3 seems to be diminishin lor.. all thx to my 好朋友 lor.. all nt sleepin den last min or else fly my kite i guess .. but see how lor.. hope for the best bah.. aniawe, can't wait for tonite .. still decidin whether anot wan go any countdown party.. quite a few pple ask me go out .. but i dun reallie know where to go .. sentosa is out of cos .. why choing go there when can watch tv .. but the "Are You Hot?" segment confrim muz go watch one ..den hor , all the media corp artists all wear beach wear .. woot~~ Is it me dat the advertisement on the countdown party keep showin jacleyn tay wear her white bikini.. look rather hot ;P hahaz.. dat means town or east coast liao ba .. but nt as happenin there i guess.. haiz.. lyk dat means muz see how oso liao lor.. lolx.. maybe stay at hm and watch dat countdown party at sentosa lor.. haha ;P be back later at nite den
就此停笔 <- haha .. sounds lyk last time wear chinese compo one ..

Monday, March 1
// 5:46:00 PM

heyZ.. miss me ?? .. lolx.. been lyk 2 daes since i blogged ?? hahaz .. aniwae, been hearin my current song alot .. now feel dat quite nan ting .. lolx.. frickle minded hor ? heex.. so erm .. gonna change to another tune .. hahaz.. midis still are the best for me .. calm, peaceful music .. unlike the world todae .. stressin me when i see my classmates all workin hard ..

haz.. todae been a gd dae for me .. of cos , best is leave out the lame jokes zach been suanin me the whole dae .. lolx.. always say gabrielite dis , gabrielite dat.. for example, he say dat the mama store around our skool veri gd business .. cos he say half the students smoke mahx..den got gd business mah .. aniwae, dat is totally nt true ..partly bcos the students still poor to smoke.. i recently saw the price .. wah lau .. 8 plus for a pack ... so ex man .. lyk smokin money le... hahaz.. if i nt wrong , last time was around 4 plus rite ?? dun get me wrong.. nt a smoke.. juz aware :P .. aniwae, i tink the majority of the gabrielite do nt smoke lor.. dat donk .. hahaz.. dun k me .. aniwae , another leng joke he say was tat most of our table below got no books one .. only parangs and pen knifes .. zZz . no liao lor.. all confiscated :P

hahaz.. aniwae yu , i take back my word .. maybe jjc is a gd skool .. i wun't know .. hahaz.. juz dat a neighbour jc wun be dat gd a choice compare to other jc mahx..shld lest try to go better skool lyk nj rite ?
nt NY certainly .. dis skool is sorely for those hu got 14 & below to go one .. always see them appeal to come here .. hahaz.. aniwae, to those applyin here .. why come ny ?? times are bad here .. chio bu r ren yan xi shao... dun bother la .. go SAjc ..confrim u all go see liao will haf 2nd thoughts of comin here .. haha.. well , i haf alot of 2nd thoughts.. maybe 3rd , 4th oso haf .. hahaz.. kiddin .. alreade one yr liao ..make alot of close buddies there ..some more all my close peers r here le ... where will i go if i dun stay here hor ?? keke :P